WARNING: Abusers can track your computer activity. If you are in danger, please call 911 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE). And consider using a safer computer such as one from the library or a friend's house.
Please refer to the section on safety planning under domestic violence 101. In addition to what is mentioned there, survivors with disabilities may want to also consider the following:
Develop a code word and practice with your children. Make sure you practice your safety plan with your children and make sure they memorize TTY/telephone numbers to call for safety. This can include developing a code word or signal with your children or with someone you trust so they know when to get help.
Get support and talk to someone about your situation. Talking to someone about your situation may help you feel less isolated. Perhaps a trusted friend, a domestic violence advocate or maybe attending a support group that is sensitive to your needs may help you strategize what you want to do next or maintain your safety. Talking to other survivors may also help you feel you are not alone.
Learn about technology safety and functions of other necessary equipment that may assist you. A batterer may be able to retrieve conversations you have via email, including checking the websites you've visited and perhaps they may know your email address and password. You may want to create a new email and password. The abuser may also know how to use the memory functions of your TTY and pager and retrieve conversations that way. You may want to hide your TTY and pager if you are strategizing to leave and talk with an advocate that specifically addresses internet or technology safety to keep safe. http://www.dvirc.org.au/HelpHub/TechnologySafetyTipSheet.htm
Call 911. Make sure you memorize telephone numbers you may need, including shelter numbers and numbers of trusted friends. If you are in danger, dial 911 immediately if you can. You can also use your cell phone to dial 911 but note that they will not be able to trace the call and find your location without having to speak with you. If you are using a landline, just dial 911 with your phone or TTY and leave the phone on the table. The police will be notified.
http://www.health.state.nm.us/Safety20Card20with%20Disabilities.pdf
http://www.ncall.us/docs/Disability_Safety_Plan.pdf
The following is a list of sample safety planning questions taken by The Model Safety Planning Protocol http://www.wscadv.org/resourcesAlpha.cfm to help determine a survivor's safety:
www.wscadv.org/docs/Disabilities1_Lesson3_PPT2.pdf
Safety Planning: A Guide for Individuals with Physical Disabilities